Thank you for the overwhelming response to this post! If you're interested in holiday themed dates and activities, check out unromantic date night ideas just in time for Valentine's Day!
The idea here is that everything needed for each date is included in the box. I made a binder (see below) that acted as the guide to the date night box. Each month they will pick one of the dates, read through the directions found in the binder, and open any accessories marked with that number. I wanted the gift to be all-inclusive so I did my best to include everything they could possibly need for that date. And of course I tried to find new and different ideas.
The binder has twelve tabs, one for each month. While I did my best to vary the dates and put them in a logical order they are not sequential. Hence the numbered, rather than monthly, labels. Each tab starts out with a page of directions that describe what they need and will do. Following the directions are checklists, score-cards, etc. You can find all of the documents below.
Date Night rules:
- One date per month. No matter what. Even if you’re busy, even if you move. You must do a date each month; no more, no less.
- The date (as in day of the month) on which you plan your date (as in the fun thing where you do something special together) is up to you. Some of these activities are great for a weeknight and others lend themselves to a Saturday morning. You decide!
- You must report back. We need a short note via email or phone call with details about what you did and how it went.
- Pictures are also required. Ideally you’d take one per date to make a mini series. Anything that allows you to document each of the twelve dates will work.
- The dates are not in sequential order. Switch things around if you need.
- Only open the boxes, envelopes and other strangely wrapped accessories only when you’re going on that date. The write- ups provide as much information as you need ahead of time. No peeking!
Here's the assortment of boxes and envelopes. I used a mismatch of tissue paper, ribbons, wrapping paper and butcher paper because it's what I had around the house. Somehow everything fit perfectly into this box we had around the house. I actually like the way it turned out!
All documents are available via Google Drive. If you want to make changes, click "file," "make a copy," and save it into your drive. If you don't have or use Google Drive you can still download the file and edit that way.
Below are the lists of items I included with each date. I tried to choose accompanying objects that would be light and easy to pack (ie a box of pudding mix). If you have more flexibility in packing and transporting you can make changes accordingly. Just remember to avoid anything that can't last a year in a box :) The template and any other documents or lists were printed, hole punched and included in the binder. Other items were wrapped and labeled (see pictures above).
Month 1: Picnic
- Template (Picnic)
- List of local parks
- Cloud Sketches Sheet
- Oversized pencils
- Two brown lunch bags
- Plasticware sets
Month 2: Game Night
- Template (Game Night)
- Score Card
- A box of pudding
- Winner prize (packet of smartees)
- Consolation prize (dum dum lollipop)
Month 3: Create- A- Date
- Template (Create-A-Date)
- Two mini canvases
Month 4: Iron Chef
- Template (Iron Chef)
- Score Card
- $20 (in two $10 bills)
- Index card with a secret ingredient written on it
Month 5: Puzzle Race
- Template (Puzzle Race)
- Two puzzles
- Winner prize (temporary tattoos)
Month 6: Ice Cream Creations
Month 7: Breakfast in Bed
- Template (Breakfast in Bed)
- Mini jar of jam
- Story/ passage/ talk/ lesson/ book
Month 8: Mall Scavenger Hunt
- Template (Mall Scavenger Hunt)
- Checklist
- Stickers to check items off the list
Month 9: Fort
- Template (Fort)
- YouTube Playlist
- Huge lollipops
Month 10: Library Trip
- Template (Library Trip)
- Bubblegum
- Bouncy balls
Month 11: Cosmic Bowling
- Template (Cosmic Bowling)
- Bowling Rules
- Glowsticks
- Bag of M&Ms (pretzel, of course!)
Month 12: Dinner Out
- Template (Dinner Out)
- Discussion Questions
- Restaurant gift card
I had a lot of fun putting this together. I hope you will too!
Credits: Diva Girl Parties for the Mall Rat Scavenger Hunt idea, Komunitni centrum Motylek for the Puzzle Race photo, We Love Being Moms for the Fort photo and GetRealGurls Nutrition for the Mall photo.
This is so thoughtful and adorable. I love it, Laura! Thanks for sharing!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comment Mel!
DeleteThis is the best list of 'dates' I have ever seen! my fiancé and I currently live about 5 hours away from one another because of work. we only get to see each other about once a month so this idea is a perfect way for us to make the most of that time! thanks for sharing! God Bless
ReplyDeleteHappy to share-- thanks for the kind words, Emma!
DeleteWhat was your secret ingredient? The Iron Chef idea is brilliant.
ReplyDeleteWe did maple syrup and the results did not disappoint :)
DeleteWhat a fantastic idea.....I hope they love it, and have a heap of fun xox
ReplyDeleteThanks Deli, I hope so too!
DeleteI absolutely love this! Thank you so much for sharing, I feel like this is going to make my fiancé very happy:)
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad to hear that :)
DeleteI've been looking for a practical, affordable, organized, flexible date night plan for me and my husband. Our anniversary is Dec 7th. This will be the perfect gift. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad! Happy anniversary to you and your husband :)
DeleteThis is fantastic, but....Why do they need oversized pencils for a picnic? Everything else makes perfect sense, but I can't figure that one out.
ReplyDeleteI just added a document that I left out the first go around. You can find it under the picnic section titled "Cloud Sketches Sheet." This is what they used the oversized pencils for but normal pens or pencils would work just as well. Thanks for catching that!
Deletethese ideas are fantastic, only there is one problem. i can`t open the template for the picnic and i would love to use it
DeleteYour post is really fantastic! Big thanks for share it with us! Hugs!
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Happy to share it! Thanks for the comment, Lydia
DeleteThis is such a neat idea!
ReplyDeleteThanks Lisa!
DeleteThis is such a great idea!! Thanks for sharing :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Tania! I'm happy to share it :)
DeleteJust to be clear, the pages in the binder are each month ideas printed?
ReplyDeleteRight. I used 12 binder tabs; one for each date. Some tabs held just the first page (like month 6) but most had several other sheets as well (month 1 for example had three sheets). All of the non- paper goods, like candy or glowsticks, were wrapped up and labeled. I crammed the binder and all the wrapped pieces into the box and sent it off!
DeleteSo what do u put between the tabs
ReplyDeleteSo what do u put between the tabs
ReplyDeleteBetween the tabs I put all of the documents for that date. For the first month (the picnic date), for example, I have three documents: the "front page" which explains what that date is, the cloud sketches sheet and the list of parks in that city. All three of those documents are attached above via google drive. I hope that helps!
DeleteThe picnic template doesnt work :(
DeleteI am going to create a twist to this one. I am going to put a box together for our first year of marriage and give it to him as a wedding gift from me. He works a lot so this will help us make time and keep things from becoming monotonous. :) I cannot wait to document our first year together.
ReplyDeleteThis is fantastic! Especially since I was grasping for wedding gift ideas for my friend that were "off the registry." Can you clarify one thing: is the binder included with the box of gifts or was that for your own purposes in planning out the dates? Thanks a bunch!! Can't wait to start putting this together!
ReplyDeleteThanks Nikita! I included the binder in the box - I layered all the wrapped gifts and then put the binder on top. It included the description of each date in addition to any supplemental materials (ie the mall scavenger hunt checklist).
DeleteHey Laura!
ReplyDeleteThis is fantastic! I love this idea. I am actually putting one of these together with a few custom tweaks to the couple I have in mind but I was wondering if I could reference your post and idea about this on my blog sheloves.simplicitywithabow.com
I want to link your blog with my new post about how I changed a few things. Let me know! You can contact me on my blog! Thanks!
Cheyenne - thank you! I would be honored for you to feature this post on your blog. Thanks for checking :)
DeleteHi Laura... I love this idea. I have 2 kids getting married soon and was thinking of making this for each of them. Do you let them know what the date is going to be before they choose it? I was thinking of putting construction paper over the description of the dates so that they would be surprised when they pick each number. They would see the tabs, but when they go to that tab they wouldn't be able to peek ahead of time.
ReplyDeleteHow much did this all cost?
ReplyDeleteI love this idea! My boyfriend owns his own company and after dealing with all the stress and working nearly every day of the week he is very much stay a in and do nothing kind of person so often "date nights" involve getting some sort of take-out food and watching movies. I love this idea as a way to get him out of the house once a month & a great way to have something planned so there is never any pressure on us last minute when we're ready to go out!
ReplyDeleteSuch a fab idea, am using some of your ideas, combined with some of my own to make a year of dates box to give to my sister and her future husband as a wedding present... will make sure they send you some pictures when they get started! xxx
ReplyDeletemy husband and I have been through a lot... grieving the loss of our youngest daughter and struggling in our relationship. She had severe medical issues and we were her nurses- long story short- I think these simple dates well help us learn to enjoy each others company again. I am excited to get the things together and start soon :) Thanks for putting everything together and allowing us to print off. I know one day I could create different dates as well but this is a great start! and great gift idea.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I've been driving myself crazy trying to find a gift.
ReplyDeleteGreat list! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThis is so cool! I think my husband and I will make one for us this year! we already have a date night jar. But I like the idea of unwrapping the stuff!
ReplyDeleteOMG, this is a post from 2014 and it found me in my darkest hour - thank you, I almost lost my hope on finding anything personal for my closest friend for her wedding and here it is <3 perfection!
ReplyDeleteMaking this for a wedding gift for my coworker who loves thoughtful, fun gifts! This is such an awesome post, I'm so appreciative of your hard work for this! I hope it keeps making the rounds because i know you'll have made a ton of people so happy with this awesome idea! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteHi, I love this idea! Although your picnic template isn't working cause apparently its violating regulations. What did the template consist of?
ReplyDeleteIs there anyway you still have the picnic template that you can share. I'm not creative at all and need help haha
ReplyDeleteI am also getting the error for the picnic template. Does anyone have one that they could share?
ReplyDeleteI'm also after the picnic template...any luck???
ReplyDeletecould u fix the picnic template?? it doesn't work :-(
ReplyDeleteAlso did u use 2 of the same puzzles or different? also what secret ingredients did u use?
ReplyDeleteOur library has a culture pass program that gets you into certain museums for free, so April’s date will only cost me lunch. For the Dave & Buster’s date I used my credit card to get D&B gift cards, reference
ReplyDeleteFebruary started with a Valentine party where each spouse made a gift for the other then had to guess which one their sweetie made among the other's gifts. My husband loved the year of dates box. February 2018 was at the Houston Rodeo and concert with Garth Brooks. Good fun, great music, yummy food, and making sweet memories of love for each other. Thank you for sharing this idea. Joanie
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I did your year of dates in 2016 but it was influential enough in our lives that when we started a blog this last month I knew I needed to make one about our dates. Please come take a look at http://tryingtobuildafamily.com/2018/03/21/year-of-dates/
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I love this article, ideas are awesome and I liked A Year of Dates (in a box) ideas very much, thanks for posting such a creative ideas. You can visit https://www.giftcart.com/buy-online-gifts-for-anniversary.html for some more ideas about anniversary gifts.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the link!
DeleteI cant seem to get the first template to open, the picnic one.HELP :)
ReplyDeleteI love this idea!! It's exactly what I'm looking for. Could you possibly change the permissions for the templates so that they can be viewed and used for this awesome idea? Thanks so much!
ReplyDeleteI am unable to open the picnic template also. :(
ReplyDeleteReally love the whole idea and the details! I only have some troubles opening the document 'picnic'. This is what I get opening it: We're sorry. You can't access this item because it is in violation of our Terms of Service.
ReplyDeleteNo idea how to solve this. Have no troubles opening the other files..
I love this idea and want to try it this year. I am able to access all linked files except the 'Template (Picnic)' file. Will you please share it with me? I'd like to know how you planned out this date night activity. Thank you!
ReplyDeletePicnic Template not working! Can you send it to me;)
ReplyDeleteI want it too! the picnic template it's still missing
ReplyDeleteIs it possible to get the picnic template sent? That was the only one I couldn't look at
ReplyDeleteI am unable to view the picnic template as well. =(
ReplyDeleteCan you share the picnic template?!
ReplyDeleteHello, great ideas! I will definitely be using this but can you share the picnic template please?
ReplyDeleteWould love the picnic template too!
ReplyDeleteI am unable to open any templates.. could you please send them to me?
ReplyDeleteI can't open the picnic template and i would really like to use it
ReplyDeleteBrilliantly thought out gift! Thank you for sharing!!I also can't open the picnic template. Could probably recreate something but not sure where to start!
ReplyDeleteI love this! Any help with the picnic template?
ReplyDeleteThis is so much fun, creative and budget friendly! Thanks.
ReplyDeleteIt seems everyone is having trouble with the picnic template, any way to fix that link?
I can't open the picnic template either. Please help. Thank you!
ReplyDeletecan I get the picnic template please?
ReplyDeleteI love this!!! Is there any other way I can access the templates? It won't open through Google drive for me
ReplyDeleteHallo, heel mooi gedaan! Ik kan het document 'sjabloon picknick' wel niet openen. Is het mogelijk om mij dit door te sturen of hier toegang tot te krijgen? Bedankt alvast!
ReplyDeleteThis is awesome! I've been looking for some kind of cute yet relatively inexpensive (since I'm a college student and on a small budget😂) gift for my uncle and his fiance for the wedding day and this seems perfect! Although there are a couple that might not fit them too well. Do you have any suggestions on how to adapt the cosmic bowling idea to golf? Or any cute tech savvy date night ideas? Hoping to do kind of at least 1 in there more up his alley and 1 more up hers.
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ReplyDeleteBut what is the pudding for?
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